Too many young women are harder on themselves than circumstances warrant. They are too often selling themselves short. They too often take criticism personally instead of seriously. You should take criticism seriously because you might learn something, but you can’t let it crush you. You have to be resilient to keep moving forward despite whatever the personal setbacks and even insults that come your way might be. That takes a sense of humor about yourself and others, believe me this hard-won advice. But it is a process. You need other women, you need your friends to support you, and you need male friends as well as female ones. You need good role models all of that is true. But at the end of the day, you really have to be good if you have high aspirations. You need to be well-educated, prepared, and willing to take your chances when they come your way. Cut yourself a little bit of slack.

At this point in my career, I have employed so many young people and one of the differences is that whenever I would say to a young woman, I want you to do this, I want you take on this extra responsibility, I want you to move up, almost invariably they would say, “do you think I can?” or “do you think I’m ready?” Well, I wouldn’t be asking you if I didn’t think you could and that you were ready. But I know that is often the first response from a young woman. When I ask a young man if he wants to move up, he goes, “how high, how fast, when do I start?” There is just a hesitancy still of women’s worth and women’s work that we are going to have to continue to address so more young women feel free to pursue their own ambitions and be successful.

” — Hillary Clinton @ Women in the World summit in an interview with NYT, April 4, 2013 (via peoplearelikesuns)


bones characters: temperance brennan


Emily Deschanel 

Venus Stock (x)


designed-for-life:

Bronte House by Rolf Ockert Design



georgianadesign:

Palisades residence, Los Angeles. Tim Barber LTD Architecture & Interior Design.



temperancesbrennan:

me when i’m watching the episode

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queercatdad:

literally a serf board


It’s all right to lie during an interrogation, Bones. It’s a technique. 


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